05/10/24

No, school isn't just the “verb to be”.

It goes way deeper than that.

I know you’ve heard it and said it before.

For good reason: most people in Brazil finish school without speaking a word of English.

It’s so common we even say “it’s just the verb to be.”

But it’s clearly not the only thing in the curriculum.

Still, everyone graduates with the same feeling.

Not just ‘cause to be really is overtaught.

But because of what causes it in the first place:

School doesn’t grab your attention.

And attention is the foundation of all learning.

If you haven’t learned, can’t keep a study routine, or even “don’t like” the language, it’s because you’re doing things that don’t grasp your attention.

What’s missing isn’t studying, it’s genuine interest.

Let’s fix that now.

Most people finish school unable to understand even the simplest conversation in English.

Let alone speak it naturally.

The reason is simple:

Schools and traditional courses treat languages like technical subjects.

Grammar rules are placed above real communication.

Lessons revolve around memorizing lists, filling in blanks, and repetitive drills.

Which leads students to feel zero connection between the language and their real lives.

That’s where the problem begins.

When something feels boring, repetitive, or useless, your brain tunes out.

You lose interest.

Your attention disappears.

No attention, no learning.

It’s impossible to learn something you find irrelevant.

Even worse, boring lessons lead to language aversion.

Many people start associating English with something heavy, hard, tedious, and far from their world.

As if it’s a burden.

A box to check.

And not a tool that could give them freedom.

The truth is: people learn English naturally when they feel genuinely interested.

When they enjoy what they’re hearing, reading, or watching.

When they want to understand what’s being said.

When they laugh at a joke and want to dig into the reference behind it.

When a song gives them chills and they want to sing along with the right lyrics.

Learning English shouldn’t feel like a chore.

It should feel like an experience.

Something that fits your life and makes sense to who you are.

The secret is to turn English into a natural part of your daily life.

Something you explore and enjoy without even realizing you’re “studying.”

Stories that move you.

Conversations about things you truly care about.

English has to be a way for you to connect with what moves you.

What you love.

What you seek.

What makes you you.

If you’re into football, consume football content in English.

If you love fashion, dive into the fashion world in English.

If you’re into gaming, follow native-speaking streamers and YouTubers.

That’s the real path to fluency.

It’s not about studying more.

It’s about connecting deeper.

The more you live in the language, the more it becomes part of you.

And when that happens, learning just flows.

Naturally. Easily. Without pressure.

You don’t need to be disciplined 24/7.

You just need to be engaged.

And no one engages in something they don’t like.

So start exploring English in a way that feels exciting to you.

That’s the shift.

That’s how real learning happens.

Here’s the truth: there’s no magic trick to learning.

There’s only daily contact driven by real interest.

That’s it.

No talent required.

Just curiosity, trial and error, and consistency.

Being yourself, but in another language.

Having real experiences because YOU want them.

Not because I or anyone else told you to.

That’s how you became fluent in your mother tongue.

And it’s the ONLY way you’ll become fluent in another language.

So start.

Leave this page and find something that sparks you, but in the language.

A song. A game. A movie. A book. Whatever it is.

There’s no right or wrong here.

Only what works for you.

So go look for it, find it, and live it.

Every day, as many times as you can.

It’s the only way.

And it’s worth every second you give to it.

I promise.

Don’t forget that, my friend.

Who is Jonatha Koeller?

I'm a self-taught polyglot, fluent in 6 languages and on my way to the next ones. For 9 years I have been helping people unlock their natural ability to learn languages and achieve fluency in their target language in a matter of months.

I've worked as a language mentor for companies such as Sony Music, Vale, Globo, Accenture, Scrumlaunch, helping everyone from base employees to CEOs.

I don't know what you'll find more surprising: that I did all of this, or that I'm bald at 26. Either way, you can be the next person I’ll help become fluent by unlocking your natural ability to learn languages.

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